Friday Thoughts: The Cycle of life?

I’ve noticed there’s an cycle about romance. The first part starts with females. They whine and complain about no good dudes, about niggas who are dogs, etc etc. They are steady on the rise looking for “good dudes” but can never find them. Any of this sound familiar?

The cycle continues with good dudes. But these dudes are apparently hard to find, so the myth goes anyways. Most of us don’t have much experience with romance or whatever you want to call it so approaching females is uncharted territory, plus females don’t give us the time of day anyways so we go unnoticed.

And there we have the cycle. Females who want good dudes but don’t see the ones in front of them, and good dudes (like me!) who don’t get the time of day but don’t make a point to get noticed. THIS is why relationships seem like they are for the birds….WHERE does the cycle end? Is it OUR job to do all the things necessary to come at a female correct, or is it their job to open their eyes for once?